[men.are.from.mars.women.are.from.venus]

As an amateur scientist and a professional artist at the top of my profession I was immediately struck by Mr. Thom’s profound statement. This idea became my passion and has brought me closer than I would have ever dreamt to an understanding of life. Shapes, particularly spherical and elliptical designs, are the best measure of the human form. With this ability, to measure the human body, it becomes very easy to understand the fundamental difference between men and women. I realized what Mr. Thom was saying about male and female organs could just as easily be said about the fundamental shapes of their bodies. Consequently it should be possible to measure the shapes of our cells to ascertain the structural stability of our individual bodies. Giving us new insight into our longevity and behavior.

Take a long, straight, silky piece of hair. If you examine a cross section of the hair you will find it is near to being perfectly round. Take a curly piece of hair and you will find that the cross section is elliptical. The elliptical shape can curve whereas a round spherical shape cannot. The instability causes the hair to curl i.e. unstable. As a generalization the most desired women in the world have long, strong, straight hair. Most of today’s supermodels have long, straight hair. A similar example would be a drinking straw. When the straw is straight the cross section is a near perfect circle. As you bend the straw the sections at or near the bend become more elliptical until it becomes so unstable that the straw collapses at the bend the most elliptical and weakest point. Mathematically speaking an ellipse is nothing more than a failed sphere.

I have often thought the Catholic Church and all our other religions, have know for thousands of years that gravity is God.  The sign of the cross is the father as you point up to our sun, down as you point to the earth under your feet, and the holly ghost, the unseen force of nature. Which these great thinkers could readily see in there water glasses, when you tilt the glass the water remains horizontal with the ground.  And of course the only force that science has been unable to measure is Gravity. Gravity cannot be blocked so it passes through everything and at the same time it effects all matter and life on earth.

To travel in space you must be born there. Six months is space leads to bone loss, that might be not be reversible. A year in space would make you unable to crawl when you got there, wherever there may be.

There is growing evidence that space travel out of our Solar System and into the space between stars is impossible. I know you have been programmed by Steven Speilberg and Hollywood to believe that space travel is the new frontier. It is time for you to give up the romantic notions that our society uses to control you. There is no higher power, no magic, no space travel, no ET. Give it up. You will be better if you learn how nature works and deal directly with the power.

The female anatomy is more spherical than a male. This means the female biology has more structural strength than the male. Pound for pound they are stronger. Ask your dentist, who can withstand the most pain? The female body can withstand more G forces than males. In World War II, only men suffered from shell shock. Males are more susceptible to genetic diseases such as Hemophilia; color blindness even being left handed. In most encounters I’ve noticed that men are more emotional than women are. Women experience less physical and emotional pain than men do. Childbirth would probably kill a man.

Humans are female in their mother’s uterus for the first 90 days. After 90 days the testosterone causes the sex organs to move to the outside. It could be said that men are failed women. Nature try's to stabilize a mans body by adding, thicker bones, more muscle, thicker skin and more hair, all of which are protection for an unstable organism, men.

There are only small people in old folk’s homes. This is not because people shrink as they get older. It is on account of smaller body types are the only ones that are living that long. Bigger bodies are more elliptical and therefore more unstable. The average NFL football player lives to be only 55 years old, all big bodies are short lived. Small petite men and women are the gymnasts, ballet dancers, and figure skaters. Their structural stability gives them superior strength,flexibility and reflexes. The average age of death for someone between the height of 5.3 to 5.5 is 90 years old.

Small women need little sex. If she is feminine and pretty even less sex. Big masculine unstable bodies need lots of sex. Since they don't live very long, they must breed, whenever they can.  Or their body type will become extinct. Now you will understand yourself and why you need as much sex as you do. Your biology determines how sexual you are. You are not a dog for wanting as much sex as you do. Just you’re biological aging clock ticking inside the body you were born with.

Pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Kahill Gibran "The Profit"  Socrates said nothing would happen without war and pestilence, (i.e. disease).

Lance Armstrong won the Tour de France, in July '99, Three years ago he was diagnosed with testicular cancer that had spread to his brain, lungs and abdomen. I have watched Lance race for many years in the Tour, and he was never a big winner. But this year after having faced death and won. He blew away every other great racer and made them all look puny.  The pain of fighting cancer had made him stronger than all the other best cyclists in the world. Of course he would not have beaten the cancer, except for the fact that he was a world class athlete to begin.

The world is running out of antibiotics that can kill our mutated bacteria. The wide spread use of Antibiotics, that is a poison to bacteria, have caused, bacteria to mutate. All organisms get stronger when you try to kill them and fail.

Bill and Hillary Clinton, are the strongest they have ever been. The impeachment failed and they got stronger.

Ask any mother about childbirth, to understand how much pain is necessary for growth.

All around us are examples of how this works. On July 1, '99 CNN did a fifteen year retrospective on there show "Pinnacle" they said if you had bought stocks in the company's that these CEO's and multi millionaires founded, you would have made 814% on your money. They ran clips of each of these famous people, and the interesting fact was they all ascribed there success to the failures and pain that they had been dealt, such as cancer, loss of family, abandonment, abuse, etc. We only grow and learn from pain and failure. If we survive it makes us smarter and stronger.

Since pain and pleasure are received though the same nerve cells, the greater the pain we can endure, the more pleasure we can receive.

All growth is promoted by pain. Today's metaphor is "if it doesn't kill you it probably makes you stronger. You better believe this if you are going to have a great life.

Girls with big asses always want guys with small asses. Girls with breasts smaller than their hips always want breast implants. They want to balance their body because they then can trade for a higher bidder, if they are more symmetrical, (i.e. 34-24-34). The same reason goes for lipo-suction and diets.

Big fat girls want little guys. But of course they don't always get what they want. Depending on how much sexual power they really have, they must compromise and take what they can get, just like guys with no money, can seldom get girls, and if you want beautiful girls you know how much that will cost, and how hard you are going to have to work to get it.  You want supermodels, then you are truly motivated.

I was always amazed at O.J. and Nicole Simpson. After 17 years he was still jealous when his ex wife slept with someone else. This is truly an obsession of the highest order. But lets look at it in terms of the biology.

O.J. is big and black, Nicole was small and blond. His kids are better off lighter and smaller, her kids would be better off bigger and darker. Biological they were prefect for each other. Just look at their kids, there beautiful.  In mathematical terms it is called "Regression of the mean". Everything folds back on itself, otherwise we would become giants or midgets in a few generations.

The prevailing theory is that we evolved from Africa and Eve was black. It has been know for over fifty years that eve was black and came from Africa. Science also believes we were apes before that and mice during the reign of the Dinosaurs. As we migrated away from Africa and the equator, where the Ultraviolet radiation penetrates the thinnest part of our atmosphere. It is there that organisms need protection from the radiation. Melanin which make people black, is not necessary as we migrated to the northern hemisphere. When we get to extreme northern continents like Sweden, our skin in very pale and more blondes are born.  The sun in Sweden is red shifted because it must go at a greater angle through the atmosphere. Much like a sunset.  Swedish people usually have weaker bones because of the lack of UV radiation which is necessary to metabolize calcium. Since this has been known, the Swedish people use UV lights to help solve their bone problems.  This research also helped in solving SAD (Seasonally Adjusted Disorder) People who get depressed in northern hemisphere countries are treated with bright sunlight for twenty minutes each morning. The light intensity is equal to the noon sun in Southern California, and the source emits high intensity UV light. This form of depression is cured in this way.

Light skinned blondes are the most desired genetic type. All men and women understand that this is beauty as we fundamentally understand it.  Elle and Cosmopolitan magazines are the most translated magazines in the world. All cultures seem to be in concurrence on what men want and women want to look like. Even tribal cultures want women with symmetrical bodies and pretty faces. The men from these cultures instinctively know what body types are better for breeding. The most beautiful are always with the most powerful.

It is the spherical shapes of women's bodies and the spherical shapes that are fundamental to the beauty around us. Most [shapes in nature] are female.

We are now experiencing "the Hong Kong economic model of Capitalism: Men who are risk takers , have twice as many wives and three times as many children, Leaders, CEO's, Politicians, Athletes, Attorneys, Rock Stars, Movie Stars, Directors and Criminals. They usually have the most beautiful wives and children. They also have the highest levels of testosterone.

Those things that are wanted most are, beautiful women, beautiful children, fine-art, real estate, gold, money and power. All these objects are stable and create stability in your life and help to guarantee the success of your genes, to get to the next generation in better shape than you.

Two, the amount of testosterone your body is now generating. The harder you workout out the more testosterone you have. If you are a man and involved in child rearing, your testosterone decreases. Single people always have more testosterone than married couples.

Third, female estrogen is converted to testosterone, and the older the female the more testosterone she has. Men loose their testosterone as they age. Older females are always more masculine than older men.

I now think that I have found the truth and beauty of nature. Sex is something women have that men want. Society's that control men's sexuality are more successful economically.

Society's that suppress male sexual desire, do better economically than society's that do not.  When men must pay for sex and breeding partners, commerce is stimulated and you have a stable society.  Today's feminists are calling marriage "legal prostitution" But of course these societies tolerate pornography, because it is the end result of suppressing the biological needs of men, to re-produce, that causes them to find other outlets for sex. masturbation, sports, or violent games and of course violence itself.

From an evolutionary biologists point of view: Low status, whatever its cause invites risk taking in men. Poor prospects for employment, marriage and reproduction make risky tactics of lying, stealing and violence more attractive.  Smart blacks in the ghettos are often the drug dealers. All of the mass shootings that has been 1999, stems from these roots. In all cases we were dealing with men or boys who had severely limited financial resources and some were about to loose their marriages and reproductive rights.

What I now see is that in the last twenty years the marriage rate in the U.S. had dropped by 20%. Our society is flourishing and women are dominating all dissemination of information. What man hasn't been told by his mother how to treat women? If you are married you know who the CEO is. As our society has embraced feminism, men are less likely to marry, and I believe that the explosion of violent pornography on the internet, is a further manifestation of men's anger toward women and being controlled.

Even the most politically correct erotica Playboy, is showing hard core pornography, on their television channel. Fisting and pain is everywhere. I have tried on my site to offer a small percentage of intelligent men the softest, most beautiful erotic site. To counter balance hard core violent pornography. You be the judge.

Sports has also blossomed, and is accepted be society as a teaching tool, that helps men understand how to be a team player. Risking it all is something men do. The adrenaline created by being so close to death is what turns men and women on. The risk takers always have unstable masculine body characteristics. Women with there more stable bodies, take many less risks. But most importantly masculine looking women act more like men and feminine looking men act more like women. See [chart].

I am hopeful that the information I am disseminating to you lets you in on the secret. And that knowing this information will allow men and women to come to terms with reality.  So that our society continues to grow, based on truth, and not romantic fantasies that disappoint us all and seem to lead to wonton acts of violence.

It is time to for advanced civilized societies to come come to terms with reality.  Until men know the truth they will continue to blame women. And of course some young men will not know how to handle there sexual urges, and perpetrate violent acts against society's interests.

In the August 99 issue of Ms magazine, there is an article about an older woman's technique for dealing with the sex she needs to stay alive. She and her husband have sex every Sunday.  Instead of him touching her and her pulling away from or him begging for sex. They have decided to have sex by appointment.  They find that there needs are better met in this way. They anticipate and prepare themselves for their escape from death orgasms. Once you get the romance and spontaneity out of your mind, it all comes together.

From the Talmud: "If I am not for myself who will be for me? If I am for my self alone, what am I? If not now when."

We all define ourselves in what we do not like in other people. Marriage is much the same. There is a big component of repulsion that exists between all living things. The living cells in the bladder and the kidney must be repulsed by each other, if they were not they might merge into one. To the detriment of the organism they both support.

All life forms must retain the organization, or they will fail. We all divide into sub groups. Society is made up of sub cultures that only communicate with each other. From hate groups to religious groups. From drug users to astrology believers.  Nature must diversify to stay healthy and strong.

Lets just take alcohol as and example. Lets remember that getting your genes to the next generation it the goal, if you don't you fail.

In England they call being drunk and not able to perform sex (brew droop), so you missed an opportunity to have sex. You failed today. On the other hand, the store owners kids do better and the the truckers kids, the farmers kids, even the IRS kids do better.  But most importantly the grape plant does the best, the farmer plants more and cares for his grape vines. It seems every one is living off your addictions. Too bad for your kids.

An orgasm is a brief shinning moment when have achieved your ultimate goal of getting you genes to the next generation. For this very brief moment in time, your whole being feels safe. You can let down your guard for a few seconds, knowing there is the possibility that you have succeeded. Hopefully it will result in a pregnancy and you will survive to the next generation. An orgasms is an escape from death.

What got you to this orgasm was your desire to save yourself from death. The baby boomers were born in war time, the birth rate always skyrockets when there is danger at hand and your primary directive of getting your genes to the next generation could be thwarted. When there is trouble in the Mideast the birth rate in Israel increases. Even the ancient Greeks said there warriors experienced erections during the stress and pain of war.  All women are turned on by the pain of menstruation. Socrates said without war and pestilence, nothing would happen.

When you prune a rose bush, the plant sees this as mortal attack and defends itself by getting its flower [i.e. sex organ],to bloom. Only then does it feel safe, when it can spatial transport its seed. (just like men).

The purpose of all cosmetics, fashion, exercise, plastic surgery is to make you look younger and more beautiful. As a fashion photographer for my life time. I have received most of my awards because I discovered and photographed the beauty of mother nature.

Recently I was watching Chris Rock special on HBO, in which he accused women of lying, since every thing they wear is to change there true appearance so that you will breed with them. Lipstick, perfume, clothes, hair color, breast implants, lip enlargement, nose reduction, hair styles, etc.

Seeing and being seen is what we all do. When no one is looking at you as potential breeding partner. The organism knows it is dying and starts to give you the pain that will kill you.  I will show you how to get back to being in the game.

Having spent most of my life around beautiful supermodels and women editors from all the major women's fashion magazines. I was even Gloria Steinmans sexual partner in 1961. I have listened to women and what they are really saying.  As always the actions speech louder than the words.

Who's the boss? We all the know the answer. First our mothers and then our wives. Mothers most cope with there unstable little boys and teach them though pain, what is required of them, so that they will know the rules necessary to get a job and a breeding partner.

Horses that are born in the wild, are an easy prey, until  they can get up off the ground and run away. Mares will not give there tit to the foal until he can run, they instinctively teach him through withdrawing from him what he wants most, her breast milk. Females teach through rejection.

All women lead there men through alternately giving and removing sex until there demands are met. The more beautiful she is the more sexual power she will have over you. And the more money you will need to keep up with her demands.

Smart women every where have figured this out. I have never met woman that did not want a young good looking millionaire. Starting with Robert Redford and Brad Pitt, Leonardo De Caprio, etc. The more women become masculine the more they are attracted to feminine men.  Not gay men because they want children.  Ten years ago on CNN there were two mid twenty girls giving free advice on a NYC sidewalk. There advice to women, "Never date a guy prettier than you are". Pretty men have sexual power over not pretty women, and the women must pay.

We all want to have children from beautiful people. From Heraldo Rivera to Heather Graham.   Television anchors, stars, supermodels, divas. We live for this stuff. on E entertainment. This is the candy, this is the goal of all life forms. You are watching evolution at work.

A paper in the Feb 7, '99 issue of Proceedings of the Royal Biological Sciences examines the market of mate choice, a favorite of evolutionary biologists. The article sampled personal ads to determine what men and women want from each other. Men want fecundity (youth), beauty and social skills, in that order. Women who have those attributes, demand young rich good looking men. The men demand those attributes, based upon there power and money.  With the exception of those men 45-49 who seem to demand three times what you would expect based upon there money and age, (early pair bond termination). It seems men who are transitioning from middle age to old age, do so fighting like hell, to get there genes to the next generation, since this is probably there last chance.  Of course this is what married women would like not to happen. But inevitably if a man has the financial resources to get young women, he will. I have noticed these men quickly marry these young girls and have a child.

As a fashion photographer for thirty years, I have witnessed supermodels being offered millions of dollars on the first meeting with rich and powerful men.

My intellectual capacity has tripled, and my orgasms are the greatest of my life. Aerobic condition is wonderful. I wonder what the great thinkers could have accomplished if they were aerobically fit?

Dr Cooper (the father of aerobics) says "aerobic conditioning increase your enjoyment of sex". I can tell you the more aerobically fit you are the greater the intensity of your orgasms and the longer you can prolong sex. The difference between the average person and an athlete is at least, one hundred levels, when it comes to sex.   The latest research shows that smoker's are much more likely to be impotent than non smokers. Your blood can only carry so much dissolved gases, which limit your ability to carry oxygen. After ninety days of aerobic conditioning, your body has two pints more blood and eighteen miles more veins. Stop smoking now before it all starts down hill.

As a New York fashion photographer and Arabian horse breeder, I have come contact with many gay people. One of my good friends Jerry Brennan and I used to have intellectual discussions when he did the hair on one the many Playboy shows and Aerobicise. Almost all the gay people I know say they were born gay. Gay people usually feel they were born in the wrong body.

My theory predicts that approximately ten percent of the general population will be born gay. See [chart]. on body types.

Since homosexuals seldom actually breed and have children. All homosexuality springs from heterosexual relationships.  I believe that as we transition in our mothers from female to male. (this is current scientific theory), those embryos that do fully morph into males, are born homosexual. This then is a natural occurrence in nature. And lesbians and gay men are correct, they were born gay.

When I bread Arabian horses on my ranch in San Luis Obispo, California in the early 70's, my wife and I had a mare that was very masculine looking, and no stallion would breed her. I used to joke that maybe I should get a garter belt and some black stockings for her.

It is my belief that as women put off their childbearing years till they are older and have established a career for them selves. When you do that it is possible that your more masculine and unstable eggs, create women that are more masculine. Also men's sperm are becoming less aggressive as they age, and effect the out come of the pregnancy. I can remember when I was a young man and starting to become a fashion photographer, that the women were much more feminine looking, even the old movies of women working in defense plants during WWW II, are extremely feminine when compared to today women sports hero's.

Certainly the age at which girls reach menarche, has lowered dramatically. In the last 50 years it has dropped from 14-15 then to 11-12 now.  This phenomenon has not gone unnoticed by the scientific community. The current theory is that body weight it the culprit. My theory says greater body weight means masculization of her body. If this is true women's mortality rate will decline also.   You can see this in risky behavior, such as smoking. More women are dying from alcohol and smoking in the last decade.

Nature always finds a balance, and the pendulum will swing back the other way. Masculine women are always attracted to feminine men. So the next generation swings back the other way.

Remember that all women get more masculine as they age. The little old ladies are dragging their very feminine old men, who want to stay home and take care of the flowers, around the world with them.

I have know many women who were heterosexual when young and become bi-sexual or lesbians later in life. One just has too look at women in high places to see this in action, Janet Reno, Golda Meiair, Nancy Regan, Hillary Clinton, etc.

In France a common joke is "Married men have their girlfriends and so do there wives".

Several years ago on CNN I watched as Jeannie Most did a segment on two thirty something girls giving free advice on a New York street corner. There advice to other women was "Never date a guy prettier than you are".  But then you will have to face up to the fact that your children might be more unattractive then you.

Men need more sex then most girls. Masculine girls are more like men and need more sex. As women get older they need more sex because they are becoming more masculine and unstable. This is commonly known as there biological clock.   After they have achieved their personal goals of ???. Children, their need for sex diminishes rapidly. Men get more feminine as they get older and want to stay home with the flowers. Unless you workout every day to keep your testosterone levels high. It has recently been reported in Scientific American issue on [MEN], that men who are involved in child rearing, have lower testosterone levels. I actually have a friend who would rather stay home and raise his son, (he's divorced) than go out and fight for a living. Only older more masculine women with money are interested in him.

This is a work in progress. My aim is to expand on the information you’ve just read and continue to seek the truth inherent in all the beauty of mother nature...

The goal is money, sex and power. p=sm₂

Ron Harris
May 1, 2003
Malibu, California